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Men Over 50 Using A Date Finder: Keep These Important Rules In Mind

A date finder is a modern avenue that are new to most middle-aged men. Since it’s a digital platform for meeting compatible women, most single men over 50 are reluctant when approaching this platform, and understandably so. It all sounds very technical and we’re all afraid of “catfishing” – not the kind you eat, but the kind where you wind up on an MTV show after. But the truth is date finders do not require one to be tech-savvy or vulnerable. If that’s what has been keeping you from trying them then no need to worry. All you have to do is create a suitable profile and you’re ready to play the dating game!

However, there are a few things which need to be at the top of your mind when using a date finder. Men sometimes forget these rules and the whole experience of finding a perfect match online could turn into an embarrassing story that you’re too ashamed to even tell your best friend.

Why should men in their 50s be reminded of these rules? There are two basic reasons. First, it’s highly likely you haven’t used date finders before because this option wasn’t available back in our day. All we had were singles bars, church groups or escort services. So, it’s good to know how the rules have changed for this new venue. Second, men will always be men. Which is to say that when it comes to relationships, we will always mess things up. So you should know some of the essential principles for using date finders. Here are a few tips for putting yourself out there in this new age of social media mingling.

Always Practice Caution

The FBI says that online date finders are quite popular avenues for scams that are perpetrated by various criminal networks. Their idea is to get to your bank account details. Men over 50, who are new to online dating, can easily be lured into a scam after seeing a glamorous profile photo of a woman. You need to steer clear of anyone who:

  • Instantly professes love for you
  • Claims to be an American, but is actually working abroad or traveling
  • Cancels plans suddenly and offers a dramatic excuse
  • Requests cash for emergencies, especially health-related
  • Sends you a picture that looks exactly like Scarlett Johansson

Be Honest…Always

For starters, don’t lie about your appearance. Do not use a decade old picture as your profile photo because when you meet with your date in person, you won’t look anything like that photo. Don’t brag about your exercise routine when in reality you can hardly lift a dumbbell. In short, just don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Eventually, she will see you and you will have a lot of explaining to do.

Make Coffee Plans First

On online platforms, many men find it hard to resist the temptation of making a bold move, but try to overcome that urge. Don’t rush things. Make plans for coffee first and see if you hit it off. If all goes well, you can get together at a nice restaurant on your next date. Besides, this way you don’t have to spend a lot of money on your first date, just in case it turns out to be your last.

Accept the Reality

Sometimes your date is not just that into you. Accept that. Even if you play by rules, it’s not necessary you’ll find someone who falls head over heels in love with you on an online date. Sometimes, your first online date doesn’t lead to the second one. No need to take the rejection personally, just move on!

Actually, these rules are meant to keep you safe when you use online date finders and plan your in-person dates. If you’re into online dating, that’s the way to go about it! It may all seem a little strange at first, but hopefully in a fun and exciting way. If it doesn’t work for you, you can always go back to the singles bars, church groups or escort services. But for more online dating tips, check out this article!

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The Manopause Team
An overeducated and underpaid team of writers, researchers and very opinionated men and women of all ages. Venturing into heretofore uncharted online territory, they are dedicated to entertaining, educating, inspiring and uniting men over 50 ...and the people who love them.
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