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When you reach your 50s, expectations and regret often begin to take a toll on your perception of yourself.

We often begin to think that we have reached a critical age where our best years are behind us and death is just around the corner. As common and significant as this realization may be, you have to remind yourself that you still have a long way to go. You are still young enough to enjoy a full and long life.

It has been said that this is when a man realizes his true maturity. In other words, it’s the beginning of a new stage of life, a more mature stage. The following are some tips that can help preserve your mental health and improve the quality of your life.

Forget About Stress

Sounds like a cliché, but it is a great start towards working for your mental health. In order to stay young at heart, you have to find the necessary ways of relaxation. Stress is one of the main causes of heart disease, chronic back pain, obesity, diabetes and several other serious health concerns. Stress may also adversely affect your immune system.

New Relationships

Many men in their 50s are lonely and single. This may be due to divorce or because they lost their spouse or because they were just unlucky in love. Because of this imposed and unwelcome solitude, these men have no one to share their feelings with. Working towards a new relationship can be a new chapter in your life and offer an escape from depression and its negative effects. You should be open to the idea of a new romantic relationship and pursue the woman of your dreams.

Improve Focus

In order to spring out of depression, people in their 50s should achieve a balance in their activities so that they can focus on their goals. A good idea would be to start practicing mindfulness. Training yourself to remain present in the moment will help you let go of all unnecessary worry and apprehensions. When your mind is not being weighed down by this baggage, focusing on your goals and priorities will come naturally to you.

Fight Against Depression

Of course, this is easier said than done. There may be a chance that people in your surroundings may never notice that you are depressed. Don’t rely too much on others for your emotional well being. You are mature enough to understand that you are all that you need. Surround yourself with positivity and a thought that you are your own army in this battle. Leave all the negativity behind.

Make all the above factors your mantra and know that what you are experiencing is very natural and an unworthy foe. The more attention you give to it, the more it will make you suffer.

Invest your money and energy into things, causes and people that truly matter. Travel the world, hit the gym, make new friends and build yourself from the ground up.

Many people have fought against depression and they have been able to leap forward as if they never had any trouble. You can do the same. After all, the man you are today is because of the battles you have won in the past!

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