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Who The Hell Wants To Go To Turkey?

I remember about a decade ago I was watching a TV show with my (then) wife in my very comfortable living room, in my very comfortable chair, in very comfortable Orange County, CA. A TV commercial came on advertising the country of Turkey, possibly from their visitor’s bureau. I recall thinking, maybe even aloud, “Who the hell wants to visit Turkey?” 

WHY Turkey?!

A few years later a friend of mine, Sara, told me she was visiting Turkey and I expressed the same thoughts, maybe even to her: “WHY Turkey?” I don’t recall her answer, but she was amazed, impressed and so were the pictures she shared.

Before I got here I had a call with my cousin and when I told her where I was going she asked the same, “Why Turkey?” question. What is it about this country that made/ makes Americans ask that? I admit I had preconceptions and imagined a primitive country more Morocco-like than European-like. Over the course of Kathleen and my travels since 2019 we planned to visit the country TWICE, and we even had tickets, but had to cancel them at the time. 

Tunisia in 2019 was our first Muslim country and both of us were unsure how that would feel, but it was lovely, as were the people. It took about a day to get over the attire, the 5 times a day “call to prayer” which sounded over loudspeakers, and the language which was much different than what we had been used to. Regardless, the food was delicious, and the people were as curious about us as we were about them. Turkey has the same prayer calls, but is VERY contemporary, with more selections of food, clothing, jewelry, and anything you wish to buy. At insane prices…

Since she and I are cold weather wimps, before we got here we searched for warm or warmish weather. We looked into Greece and their many islands, plus Malta, and Cyprus and then one day I looked at the map and found the furthest south place we could stay before running into Africa or having to trek to Asia. That city is called Antalya, and that is where we are.

We did some research on the country and found it to be remarkably tourist friendly with one of the best railway systems in this part of the world, which was a very nice surprise since our usual haunts in Southern & Eastern Europe have poor rail systems, and per wiki, “Turkey has an active network of 12,532 km (7,787 mi) of railways, making it the 23rd-largest railway system in the world.”

Here’s Why:

We are now official residents of Turkey, which was easier than renewing my California driver’s license, and now we can stay for up to two years with no restrictions. Every day we discover new places, events, and views. For instance:

  • Antalya is located in a bay on the Mediterranean and has loads of history. Hadrian’s Gate was the entrance that the emperor entered in to back in the time of Christ. Likewise, there is Hidirilik Tower, which is undergoing renovation, and that is also 2000 years old, plus we have some of the most beautiful mosques I’ve ever seen. Very close is the amazing Duden waterfall (it flows INTO the Mediterranean, look it up), plus within a view hours bus ride there are towns with scores of more ruins, plus Cappadocia, with unbelievable landscapes, and Pamukkale, with thermal pools flowing down travertine terraces. 
  • The difference between the US dollar and the Turkish lira (TL) is at an all-time low, which is hard on the natives, but means our dollars go far. Breakfast for two, including omelets, bread, and two cappuccinos are about $5.50. We eat dinner out almost every night, which usually includes at least one glass of wine or beer, and it’s usually less than $10. This also means our rent is cheap…We have stayed at three different places and now reside in a hotel-apartment for about $550 mo. USD. We are in “Old Town,” two minutes to an amazing viewpoint, and within five minutes’ walk to more restaurants than we need. 
  • Residency. One of our biggest hurdles over our three years of travel has been the common 90-day visa limitations. Albania and Georgia, which allow visits up to 12 months, were possible destinations for us to get around this, but Turkey has the easiest residence process than anywhere we’ve been. Our two-year permit can be extended and after eight years, we are full time residents. That is very tempting!
  • Even though this was the coldest winter in many years, it was still “manageable.” Lows at night were in the high 30’s, and since spring starts soon that should all be behind us. 

So if you share this blog and someone asks, “WHY Turkey?” you can tell them why!

Checking Off The Boxes (part II)

Whether we do it consciously or not, when we make decisions on certain things to determine if we “like them,” we go through a mental checklist and check off the boxes of what works and what doesn’t. The simple act of walking into a new restaurant would prove this out as you determine if it’s clean, quiet enough, smells good (or not), makes you feel welcome, etc… If an important box is unchecked, you may just check out yourself. When you dated (or still do), when you meet/ met someone, you did a mental box checking act to see if you liked them or not. 

  • Too tall or too short? Check
  • Too heavy, skinny? Check
  • Right color hair, clothing, voice? Check, check, check.

As Kathleen and I explored 25 countries and countless cities over the past three years, we also went through a checklist to determine if we liked it, thought about returning—or even live there. We loved and still love Spain, Portugal, and especially Croatia, and we have had countless discussions of whether we wanted to return or if we wanted to stay “long term.”

For several years Croatia, and Split city in particular, were at the top of our “Yes, we could live there,” conversation, but now Antalya, Turkey has replaced it as number one. That is just one of the many reasons we got residency here in Turkey, and that will allow us to stay for two years and not worry about visa issues.

What Does Our Checklist Look Like?

Weather: check. Very similar to Orange County, CA, where I lived for four decades, and one of the best climates in the US. Chilly (mostly 50 degrees range, lower at night) and a bit rainy in winter, and hot in summer. From what we heard this town gets TOO hot in summer, so we plan to go north or to higher elevation to be comfortable.

Scenery: as nice as Orange County and California are, this place kicks its ass. The cliffs and Mediterranean Ocean here are breathtaking, and considering we can see walls and buildings that are 2000 years old, it can be humbling. Having the ocean just 10 minutes away by foot is also very convenient!

Food: plenty of it and all good. Heavy in the fish and veggies and that fits since the Mediterranean diet is considered to be the healthiest in the world.

People: so amazingly cordial and friendly in a very real way, and most speak English so there is no language barrier here at all. There is also a decent, but small expat community of English speakers from many countries (mostly UK), but not many Americans. 

Cost of living: one of the biggest draws since our lifestyle is about 25-35% of what California was and we can live and eat for a fraction of what we used to spend. For the next several months we are in an apartment/ hotel and on the roof is a full-on pano view of the ocean and marina, and our rent is not even double what my car payment used to be…

Access to other areas (domestic): Turkey is about 8% of the size of the US, and 16% larger than Texas and there are 5000 miles of coastline split between four different oceans: Mediterranean; Aegean; Sea of Marmara, and the Black Sea to the north. That means lots to explore just inside this one country, plus they have a good domestic rail system as well as here in the city of Antalya.

Access to other countries (international): on the compass dial we are situated to the east of Europe, but we can get there in just a few hours. We’re just north of the middle East and Africa and they are also accessible. If we choose to go further into Asia (Turkey IS considered Asia, which I did not know before) it’s easy, plus airline costs are much cheaper than in the US. 

When we compared Turkey to any other place we’ve been (or thought to go), no place checks off that many boxes. 

If you’re curious and would like to visit or want information, please let us know, we’d love to introduce you!

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Norm Bour
Norm Bour
Norm Bour has been a full time travel journalist and nomad since leaving the US in 2019 with his wife, then girlfriend, at ages 64 and 65. He has been with Manopause almost from the beginning, and has written many articles since 2020. He just hit country #35 since then, and in total has been to 47 different ones. As a baby boomer, his mission is to encourage, motivate and inspire the “Fifty Plus” crowd to experience life while they are able. Norm and Kathleen live a higher quality life outside the US with much less money, and his blog, www.TravelYounger.com , shares their experiences from the beginning, along with all the lessons learned along the way. He recently wrote Nomadic Life for All Ages, which is availableon Amazon
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